Multiple Orgasms

Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier
to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple
clitoral orgasms. If an orgasm rears its lovely head while
you two are playing, try whispering some words of encouragement
(and perhaps ratchet up the intensity just a little bit), but
basically continue pleasuring through her orgasm, afterwards,
and possibly into a next one.

As long as it still feels good for both of you, what's the
point of stopping? There is often a "pyramid effect" with
multiple G-spot orgasms; each one makes the next one feel
better, and makes almost anything else sexual feel better too.

However, as I said earlier everybody is a little different,
and quality is obviously more important than quantity.

It IS true for some women that G-Spot play may become more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it. It is also true that the intensity
of G-Spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal
muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC
muscle exercises.

If you're a woman and you want to try including your G-Spot
when masturbating, one good combination of toys would be a
vibrator (used on your clit as you're getting warmed up).

By the way, in general it isn't a good idea to have a huge ego
/emotional stake in having (or "giving") orgasmsor multiple
orgasms; most sex educators believe it isn't helpful to get
"goal oriented" about something that's supposed to be fun.

Thanks for reading,

Lorenzo Martini

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Problems Women Have Ejaculating

I think there are two major problems women face that prevents 

them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation.
They are the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability
or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques.

I will address both of these problems and the solutions here.
The ejaculation is done through the urethra.

This is the same tube that is used for urination.
It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris.
The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating.

In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving,
it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina.
The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure.

And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the
best orgasm's. Often ejaculation takes place during both a
clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms,
clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two),
giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy.

Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out
from the intense feelings.

It can be argued that since the only reason that females can
and do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason
for them to not do so, and as often as they please.

It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be
triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is
more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary
position, but still possible.

Thanks for reading,

Lorenzo Martini

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Abandoned Babies Worldwide

I am surfing the internet today and was surprised to know that there were a lot of babies being abandoned by their mother not only here in the Philippines but all over the world. What is alarming also is the fact that the search engine for the word 'abandoned babies' will give you a result of as much as 4,390 sites. These figures are for bing search engine results alone and not counting that of google and yahoo. And I am thinking that if we add all those numbers from the other search engine, the figures will reach as much as 10,000 or maybe 15,000 babies being abandoned worldwide. So, I am wondering now what could be the compelling reasons of those mothers to abandon their newborn babies? Remember, this is happening worldwide and I don't agree that poverty is the lone culprit or would be the common answer to the question. Therefore, what must be the reason for all of this?

See it for yourself here...

Questions About the Penis

What's the average size of the penis? What are the extremes?
According to specialists, the average is 15cm and 90% are between 13 and 18cm.The records for a fully functional penis are 1.5cm and 30cm. 

Can penis size be increased? 

Yes. There are two surgical procedures to increase penis size-- the Bihari Procedure, and Fat Injection.

The Bihari Procedure consists of cutting the ligament that secures the base of the penis to the body. This gives between one-half and two inches of increased length to the penis; however, because the penis is no longer anchored to the body an erection no longer points 'up.'

Fat Injection is the process of removing fat from the backs of the thighs and injecting it into the body of the penis to make the penis thicker. Because the body rejects a significant portion of the injection this procedure may need to be repeated several times and each operation carries with it a severe risk of infection.

What is circumcision and why is it done? 

Male circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin from the penis. When performed in a hospital, it is usually done shortly after birth by a doctor or midwife. Circumcisions are also given to Jewish boys by a mohel in a ceremony eight days after birth.
Some Islamic boys are circumcised when they are older, around age 12. The majority of American boys are circumcised.

Common reasons for circumcision include: better hygiene, "normal" or "better" appearance, and "his penis should look like his father's."

Common reasons against circumcision include: it is no longer necessary for hygienic reasons; it is a painful, barbaric practice; possibility of infection or surgical error; "normal" or "better" appearance; "his penis should look like his father's."; and "greater sensitivity of uncircumcised penis."

Hope this clears some mysteries for you.
Thanks for reading,
Lorenzo Martini
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Skyrocket Your Ejaculation

Question: How do I make my ejaculate more powerful regarding distance and quantity of semen?

Let's start with distance. First, the pelvic floor muscle plays an important part in the strength of your erections and ejaculatory control. To locate this muscle simply stop the flow of urine.

You will feel the muscle contracting at the base of your penis and across the pelvic floor, including your anus. Just as the first feelings of climax begin, completely tighten the pelvic floor muscles.

The automatic contractions of orgasm will inevitably begin and due to the pressure you are exerting with the sustained muscular tension, your load should shoot farther.

To gain more power and distance, you have two options. Firstly, integrate some sort of anal penetration into your solo sex. Slipping in a butt plug or fingers will put pressure on the prostate and urinary tract. A similar thing happens when you mash your thumb over the opening of a freely flowing water hose.

It makes the water stream shoot farther and harder. Second, increasing and prolonging your level of arousal can help to increase the amount of ejaculate you produce. Some of my most powerful ejaculations have occurred after a sustained period of high arousal.

Now for quantity. This depends on the individual, his age, and how long it's been since he's last ejaculated. Some guys come a little, some come a lot, and age has a lot to do with the amount of ejaculate. 

Instead of saving up semen in order to spurt a bigger load, I'd suggest coming on a regular basis. Why focus on the quantity of semen? I'd pay more attention to the quality of your orgasms and the pleasure you get in sex with yourself and a your partners.

Thanks for reading,

Lorenzo Martini



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Avoid Unplanned Pregnancy Video

Below is the video I made and uploaded to You Tube some months back on how to avoid unplanned pregnancy with the help of a chart guide I named DontGetPreggy Guide.
With this video, it was mentioned here of a product called Cycle Beads which is a tool for determining fertility period of a woman based on her menstrual cycle. This Cycle Beads is where I patterned the making of the chart DontGetPreggy Guide.

Pnoy versus Padre Damaso

President Noynoy Aquino has recently announced that he is in favor on the use of birth control methods among couples who want to practice family planning.

He further stated that couples themselves are in the best position to determine what is best for their families and what methods they would apply whether it be artificial or natural method of birth control.

This latest announcement by the President on the subject of responsible parenthood drew the ire anew of the Catholic bishops who are strongly opposed on the idea of promoting both the artificial and natural birth control method on family planning instead of just only one method which is the natural method of birth control.

However, President Aquino appears not bothered by his pronouncement even by a threat of 'excommunicado' by the Catholic prelates and was not inclined to reconsider his stand on the issue.

I remember when I started this blog, I cited that one of the reasons why birth control program has failed in the past is the lack of funds and support coming from the previous administrations to effectively implement this program. But now, that it finally got its full backing from this new and present government and even appropriating funds for the project, a new setback again has cropped up but now with the opposition coming from no less but these Catholic bishops.

This program of family planning has been going on since way back of the Marcos regime but its implementation was not very much successful on the grounds cited above. These bishops should have come out a long time ago when the program is still in its offspring to air their dislike on the plan but why only now?

And where is the so-called "separation of state and church" as being taught in the secondary education. I think the duty of the Church is to merely provide spiritual guidance to its vast Filipino Catholic members on the issue of birth control.

It is now the chance of the government to make its move but why are they now mingling on the affairs of the State. Why not let the government do its part on where the church obviously failed as shown by several incidents of abandoning of babies and leaving unborn child right infront of Catholic churches. Are these bishops just saving their own faces and could not admit the fact that they have miserably failed on their spiritual guidance against pre-marital sex and on birth control?

I hope our President will not be coward by the threats of these bishops of making him 'excommunicado' from the Catholic church.

DOH and Catholic Bishop finally agree on responsible parenthood, but not sex education.

The DOH and a Catholic bishop had finally come to terms when it comes to responsible parenthood but not on sex education.

Both parties are optimistic to have a solution to its long standing conflict on giving sex education to elementary and high school students as part of DepEd school curriculum. They are now seeing that responsible parenthood can be a more appropriate terms to use and not sex education.

However, there are still differences in their own terminology of responsible parenthood. While the government translates it as 'allowing couples to have a more active part in family planning', the Church on the other hand view it as 'allowing parents to follow the natural biological composition of the human persons'.

Although they differ on their own views, both parties are now confident that they can find a compromise with talking and not fighting each other and also without having to go back to square one.

Read more here...

Sex Education in Public High Schools

The Department of Education is planning to push though with its project of teaching sex education in selected 29 public high schools including Metro Manila and in some provinces in the country being eyed as its pilot areas.

This was announced by the Department Head Secretary Mona Valisno months ago and is all set to be implemented this coming school opening on June.

As it is, the said plan is again being opposed by the Catholic Church but Secretary Valisno is determined to do it as she claims that some cases of sex related diseases among the youth have reached a very alarming rate, stemming from lack of knowledge on the subject.

Read more here...

CBCP Not Giving Up On Reproductive Health Bill

It's been a month now since my last post here and almost a month after the automated election that was held here in the Philippines. And as we can see on the election results, there are several candidates who are proponents of RH bill that emerged winner in their bid for government posts. Even Sen. Noynoy Aquino who is the leading presidential aspirant is a known supporter of the said bill which the Catholic bishops said promotes the use of artificial contraceptives and is thus, tantamount to an abortion.

Well, the Catholic church is still not giving up wherein a CBCP offical have issued an statement that they will continue to 'monitor' these elected government officials who openly support the controversial RH bill.

Read more here...

Filipino Voters Are Immature?

This is the claim of the Catholic church as the reason why many advocates of RH bill have won a seat in the last local and national election. But proponents for the said bill think otherwise and said that Filipino voters showed maturity by electing pro-RH bill.

Read more here...

The Reproductive Health Bill

This bill has been pending in Congress for sometime now as it gained wide criticisms from the Catholic church. It may pass on as a law but maybe not until after the election time is over and a new president of the Philippines is elected next month. I think passage of this bill as a law would not only benefit many Catholics but the whole Filipino nation as well. After i go over and read some provisions of the proposed law, i don't think it may cause any harm on anyone else, as it clearly states that the bill does not changes the law on abortion contrary to claims by other sectors that it promotes an abortion, to wit:

SEC. 3. Guiding Principles. – This Act declares the following as basic guiding principles:
m. While nothing in this Act changes the law on abortion, as abortion remains a crime and is punishable, the government shall ensure that women seeking care for post-abortion complications shall be treated and counseled in a humane, non-judgmental and compassionate manner.

There are some provisions or sections on the proposed bill that has been practiced already in the past so i think it is high time now that passage of this bill will only justify what has already been going on a long time ago.

The last paragraph of the above provision is what really caught my attention as i have observed that many women nowadays as in the past are really keen on observing birth control especially the natural birth control. But some women have an irregular menstruation period and may not fit to follow the natural method of birth control and left with little options available while the others just doesn't know how it is properly done. And as a result of their miscalculations, it resulted instead of their getting pregnant. Thereafter, some may seek any kind of remedy just to abort the formation of a child on their womb. Some of them may not be too successful and will experience continues bleeding on their uterus that would lead them to seek hospital assistance. But the problems got more complicated when some hospitals refuse to accept patient who undergone some kind of an abortion...

Just want to point out that i am not promoting abortion here, my contention is that what if there is a patient just like the example above and a hospital personnel refuses to give aid or medical assistance upon learning that she went some kind of an abortion, where would that poor patient seek instead for medical aid?

Read entire Reproductive Health Bill here...

Birth Control on You Tube

Some months ago, I have recorded a video on the subject which I downloaded to You Tube. This video I wanted to share in this blog. Watch it and enjoy, I hope you like it. This could also describe my strong emotion to really eradicate if not lessen those unplanned pregnancy among teenagers. I entitled this video 'Pregnancy Tips: How to avoid unwanted pregnancy among teenagers.'